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Five ways being chosen can change your life

Five ways being chosen can change your life

When was the last time you were chosen? Maybe you were chosen for a new job or an academic program, a relationship or an innovative project. Or maybe it feels like you haven’t been chosen in a really long time.

Regardless, there is a new way that YOU can be chosen. You may be familiar with child sponsorship — a monthly donation to support a child in a developing country. Typically, you select a child you want to connect with. But now, World Vision has flipped that choice — giving children the power to choose. This means that you could be chosen by a child as their sponsor!

Why does being chosen matter? Joel from Chicago says, “It’s going to be a life-changing experience.” Discover five ways being chosen has changed people’s lives for the better.

When Regis was chosen by 9-year-old Rosemary from Kenya, it was an emotional reminder of God’s love. (©2019 World Vision/photo by Andrea Peer)

1. Being chosen is a reminder of God’s love.

Being chosen can be an emotional reminder of God’s love. And when the person who chooses you is a child on the other side of the world, it is even more remarkable. Regis, 35, from Chicago was chosen by 9-year-old Rosemary from Kenya — an experience that felt familiar. It reminded him of being in an orphanage in India and his mother choosing to adopt him. Being chosen by Rosemary also reminded Regis of Jesus’ love. “This is a good reminder of Jesus. He does not, He has not forgotten me. He hasn’t forsaken me. He continues to love me,” says Regis.

This is a good reminder of Jesus. … —Regis Storey, World Vision sponsor

2. It’s an invitation to participate.

Being chosen is like receiving an invitation. An invitation to not just sit back but to participate in a relationship and in God’s work of transformation. Joel Barnes has donated to charities before, but he says being chosen as a sponsor feels entirely different. “There’s something that’s inside of me that’s been able to be connected at a different level because I’ve been invited, and I didn’t invite myself,” says Joel. He says he feels like this invitation is especially important now “as our country starts to wrap its head around privilege.”

Children and sponsors share how being chosen has changed their life.
When Joel was chosen by Collins from Kenya it was an invitation for Joel and his daughter, Hannah, to participate in a world different than their own. (©2019World Vision/photo by Laura Reinhardt)

Joel sees Chosen as a reversal of our entitlement, inviting humility and participation. “The invitation that Chosen has provided disarms our privileges that we have taken for granted for so long. It flips it and it invites us into a different space, that we are welcomed and asked to participate in, by a child, on the other side of the world. And that’s powerful,” says Joel.

3. It can provide a sense of purpose.

Being chosen inspired Yinka with new purpose as a role model, mentor, and donor. (©2019World Vision/photo by Andrea Peer)

In the Bible we see that because God has chosen us, we don’t just live for ourselves, but for God, too. Being chosen by a child can extend that sense of purpose.

When Rosemarie, 70, was chosen as a sponsor by 7-year-old Ryan from Kenya she found “another person in my life that I want to live for.” When Joel was chosen by Collins, he found, “another layer of accountability and motivation for the call that God has on my life.” And Yinka Owolabi, 35, found an answer to her prayer for God to use her when she was chosen by two children — Mary and Mutinda — as their sponsor. “This is a huge way to be used,” Yinka said, who has become a role model and mentor for both kids. “I am feeling needed, wanted, and even appreciated.”

I am feeling needed, wanted, and even appreciated.

4. It helps you make a new connection.

Being chosen means new connections as you step into a new relationship. As a lawyer in Chicago, Yinka discovered a surprising connection with Mary, one of the kids who chose her — Mary wanted to be a lawyer, too. In the year and a half since then, Yinka’s connection with Mary has deepened. She writes emails, sends packages, and gets more letters in return from the two kids than she was expecting. “It is Christmas Day whenever I get a letter,” says Yinka, laughing. “It’s nice to be remembered. It’s nice to hear from someone else, and even to hear from someone around the world, it’s a special thing.”

It’s nice to be remembered.  … it’s a special thing.

Connections feel especially important today. “For me, having the open communication with a child, that’s priceless,” says Yinka. “Especially in light of the fact that many of us are working from home, working remotely, it’s definitely something that you can take advantage of the virtual ways to connect.”

Five ways being chosen can change your life
Being chosen by a child on the other side of the world provides a daily reminder of a different world, a shift of perspective that can bring freedom from feeling stuck. (©2020 photo courtesy of Joel Barnes)

5. It can provide a new perspective … and freedom!

During the challenges of the COVID-19 pandemic, we could all use a new perspective. For Joel, having a friendship with a child living in poverty in rural Kenya has given him a new perspective, particularly during the months he’s been stuck at home with less income and less freedom. He keeps a photo of Collins, his sponsored child, on his desk and prays for him daily. “It has allowed me a window into the perspective of another life, another lifestyle,” says Joel about sponsorship. “The things that we have to complain about … pale in comparison when you start to hold them up to other people in the world’s situation right now with this virus.”

Joel sees a shift of perspective as a solution to feeling stuck, especially in this time that can feel paralyzing. “Perspective can represent freedom for us,” he says. “If we really lean into different perspectives, if we really empathize with people, if we really care about other people, it can start to free us up to make the change that’s needed in the world and to make that communication that’s needed in the world, and shift our own hearts.”

Are you ready to let yourself be chosen and step into a new relationship? Sign up today and let a child choose you.

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